Where there is pornography there is a man. Research conducted scientists discover all adult men were watching porn. Surprisingly habit first began when the average male age of 10 years.
Researchers from the University of Montreal Canada doing research in 2009. Initially, researchers just want to find a man aged in their early 20s who have never seen pornography.
But the researchers actually have trouble finding a man who has never watched a porn movie. None of the men surveyed who have never watched porn movies.
"We could not find a single man who had never seen pornography," said Professor Simon Louis Lajeunesse as quoted by the Telegraph, Tuesday (01/02/2011).
About 90 percent of normal male (heterosexual) who surveyed watch porn movies from the internet, own the remaining 10 percent purchased from the store video.
Single men surveyed claimed to watch pornography on average 40 minutes for three times a week. While men who have admitted watching porn couples only 1.7 times a week for 20 minutes.
From the results of this study, researchers concluded that men watching porn in accordance with the image and style of sexuality. But they will get rid of movies that are considered too weird.
"But pornography does not change the perception of men against women or interfere with the relationship with her partner. In fact, most of them pretty conventional sexual style," said Prof Lajeunesse.
Who feared the rise of pornography will have negative effects for those who are not yet mature. Moreover, the results of the study was a desire to see pornography on average occur when a child 10 years of age.
Psychologist Andayani Ramelan, Psi from the University of Esa Unggul ever contacted detikHealth said the children would find pornography because it was originally filled with curiosity and wonder.
For that it's good, parents provide the delivery and explains cause and effect with an easily understood by children.
Because of the prohibition against the children without any explanation would only make the child will find out for himself from sources that could have menjerumuskannya on things that are not good.
Andayani Psychologists offers tips for child porn was curious about the video:
1. Give understanding, not coercion.
Avoid using the word 'do', let alone in expressing harsh articulation. Instead of saying 'You're not allowed to watch porn videos!', Better explain to her why she was not allowed to watch and its impact.
2. Give the notion of sexual relations, but need not be told in detail.
Say that 'sexual relations should only be done by a husband & wife are valid according to religion and the state'.
3. Associate with moral and religious education.
Tell me if sexual relations without marriage is not true and will get a sin. Tell him, 'God does not like people who watch porn videos you know ...'
4. Let me know cause and effect when the act was done.
Explain that the action was going to embarrass himself, his family and those around him.
5. Ask the child about the views and opinions.
See the reaction of children, whether the child had caught the intention of speech or not.
6. Note the child's activities while he was still in reach of a parent.
7. Remind him to be close to God Almighty.
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